Massage His Ego, Grow His Commitment

Men do not marry a woman because of her beauty; they marry a woman because of how they “Feel” in her presence, said one Dr Mike Murdock.

Whereas men derive their confidence and self esteem from their career and achievement his woman remains the single most enhancer of his self esteem.

There is never a middle ground on this; you either have a man who is always enthusiastic to tell you plans for the family, career, business and other dreams or a timid gentleman.

Does he fit the bill?

“How do I know he is serious with me?” I hear this question all the time from women.

The movie, “he is mine, not yours” gives interesting about the tests women do on their list of eligible men to know how serious they are. It is an instinct desire in human beings to be sure that things are okay. Men, the moment you start showing interest in a lady, she starts digging information about you.

I got some interesting tips on “testing your man” from the movie:

Lies that Blind women on Eligible men

 

It is likely that a number of ladies have set this year as the year to get themselves a man to marry.

Today I take time to explore some misconceptions the ideal man to marry that I have overheard. Whereas on face value most appear glamorous deep inside they are hollow and often lead to empty endings. I have selected a few:

1.       The older he is than me, the more mature he is

Make your spouse your life Coach …

We have a new year to once again make it happen in our lives.

I imagine most of us are focusing to achieve great milestones this year and are fired up this month to make them work. However history has shown that as the year progresses the fire dims to lukewarm and dies off slowly towards midyear. That is why this year I am willing to take a different approach that has worked for me in the past; having my spouse as an accountability partner.

Good Men are Found in Good Places

IN CHURCH sisters are complaining the brothers are boring, out there Women claim the men are irresponsible and non committal.

College girls say their fellow men r broke n young, in offices LADIES will tell you their colleague r dating younger women.

Where are good men? Is it true that good men are no longer available?

Ironically women outside church are now said to be flocking churches in search of good men while inside churches many sisters will tell you that Christian men are boring and not marriage material.