Finders and Keepers forum at Mavuno Mashariki

Join my Wife and I and  Pastor Wa as we share about love and relationships at Mavuno Mashariki in Donholm..

Come lets have fun and learn while at it …………..

directions:

If you are coming from Mombasa road or Jogoo road, you turn into Donholm at the Caltex Junction ( the one that has steers). Drive one, take your FIRST left.  Pass the Catholic church on your right( you can use this as a landmark to make sure you dont get lost)

On your left, there is a guest house called Rossam Villa guest house, turn right through the green gate ( it looks like a court gate for an estate). Mavuno Mashariki is on your right , you will distinctly see the coloured walls

‎When Love hits Rock bottom for a woman….

As an advocate of happy marriages I believe every relationship can withstand the pressures of marriage, and surmount all challenges facing them.

The recent husband battering drama has however exposed a group of frustrated women pressed to the wall by irresponsible men. This week I choose to address this group of women; the women whose men are lost in drunkenness, infidelity, extravagant spending and domestic violence.

Some of the men have walked this path through enticement from their lust while some have been misled by their friends and colleagues. Women whose men are in this group need to accept that their men are in the lost course and need help to take an about turn.

Sisters not ready for Marriage ….

There is a group of women who insist on pushing their way, won’t respect a man and are clearly not ready for the high calling of wifehood.

From the control freaks, gold digger, drunkards, helpless type and their kind. These women need to mature up of they are to make a marriage work.

Join us at the ‘Singles Club’

Single hood is a precious stage in life, its a gift worth celebrating. For those desiring to cross over to marriage, this is a critical stage to meet people, interact and when time is ripe identify the suitable one to commit to.

In our modern  times owing to our engagements and the dying community spirit we often lack opportunities to interact with other single men and women for enriching moments.

After careful consideration and a year of writing and mentoring young people on love, relationships and marriage, my wife and I have resolved to start a Singles Club. This shall be a place where singles (both men and women) shall meet to enrich each other, interact and grow. It is a place to meet new friends, engage each other and have fun.

Those interested are requested to send an email to kagiri.anthony@gmail.com and lets engage in a life transforming journey

Join us and lets grow together….

regards

Ladies, Claim your Space without Hitting him….

Nyeri women have been on the spot in the recent past for ‘disciplining’ their errant men.

I have always heard that there are men who battered but never thought it could be as worse as what befell Simon Kiguta who was attacked by his wife with a panga last week.

Whereas husband batterers may be aggrieved, this course only leads to destruction. In most cases it results to dysfunctional marriages and divorce and to the worst you could end up in jail.

What not to do on your first date….

First dates are anxious moments for some, time to impress. For others they are fun moments, time to enjoy the moment of finally landing the date.

Whereas your first dates are meant to have some fun and get to know your date a little more, some of the things people do send the wrong message.

Venue

Where he takes you for a date is very important. it either shows he is serious with you or is out to have fun. Bars and dance club communicates fun.  A coffee shop or a hotel communicates some seriousness. If in the first date he takes you to a bar you might just be in for a life time of ‘unsoberness.’

Rekindle your first love ….

This coming week flower vendors, candy shops and card makers all over the world will be making a kill as we celebrate Valentines Day.

This ‘annual day of love’ means different things for different people. For the lucky ones it is time to receive a flower bouquet (at times the only one in the year), dinner date or better still get the first date from a suitor. There are men who also wait for this day to pop the ‘will you marry me’ question.

Sadly though, valentines is also the day that bad things happen to love. It is among the days that many breakups happen, probably because some men never did anything to prove their love. In desperate search for love some girls end up losing their precious virginity to trigger happy men who disappear as fast as day break of February 15.

Valentine’s day highs and lows…

This Friday will be a day of mixed fortunes for lovers.

For the lucky ones whose lovers took Valentine’s Day serious, it will be a day of good hangovers while for others it will be mourning time owing to disappointments. For the lucky ones their love will have gone a notch higher while for others a few steps back or even a break up.

Valentines can be a leave you on a high note or devastated; at times this conclusion is all about what value you ascribe to the day.

We can all agree that valentine’s is a valuable day to our sisters but to most men it doesn’t make any sense. Actually to most it is a bother since they have to be all romantic and meet expectations of their ladies, some of which are outrageous.

Quench his/her anger with love ……

Two months ago I met this lady who was at the brink of a divorce owing to persistent irreconcilable differences with her husband.

The couple couldn’t agree on almost anything. Conflicts had become a piece of their daily cake and they couldn’t take it anymore. The conflicts had strained their relationship and each of them couldn’t find a heart to be nice to each other, it was like outdoing each other in being bad. I encouraged Angela to be the sober one and stop the rat race.

Earlier in the month I had another chat with Angela and she told me things had turned for the best. Her husband was coming home early, wanting to help with housework and couldn’t wait to go for shopping together. I was curious to find out what had caused the sudden change of events and her answer was straight: “I showed him kindness without expecting him to reciprocate.”